Saturday, July 6, 2013

Silver Falls State Park - A Haven for Hikers of All Skill Levels

This week my good friend Rose and I took seven kids to Silver Falls State Park for a hiking/swimming/picnic adventure.  Rose had never been to Silver Falls State Park and I had so much fun showing her around.  It is only an hour and ten minute, scenic, drive from our house in Newberg.  We passed a field full of flowers just outside Mt. Angel.  Its beauty was so captivating that I pulled over on the way home to get some photographs.

Silver Falls State Park is a haven for hikers of all skill levels.  You can hike as little (as in NONE) or as much (nine miles to see it all) as you want.  The Trail of Ten Waterfalls showcases ten waterfalls in nine gorgeous miles of hiking on wide, well manicured trails.  The kids and I hiked the entire trail last year with Sarah but our mission this visit was to relax, not wear ourselves out covering the entire park in one day.
taking in the view of South Falls

Lower South Falls - see the boys behind it?
Many of the waterfalls have carved out caves in the cliffs behind them and the hiking trails go directly behind the waterfalls.  The kids love playing in the caves and climbing the rock faces.  The Canyon Trail follows an inviting creek in the canyon floor.  There is easy access to the creek to cool off and catch crayfish.
climbing, climbing, climbing

the boys

cute girls
The South Falls Day Use Area is really inviting.  It has multiple picnic tables and shelters, flush toilets and drinking fountains, a playground and a designated swimming area.  It even has a snack shack if you get a craving for an ice cream cone.
I really like this silhouette of Rose and the little girls
We picnicked first.  Then took the kids on a small hike.  We covered two miles in two hours, taking time for photos, cave exploring, rock climbing, and playing in the creek.  We kind of let the kids set the agenda and it led to minimal whining and maximum fun.

group shot behind Lower South Falls
When we got back to the day use area, we had a snack and then the kids went swimming while Rose and I sat on blankets in the sun and talked.
tired little hikers
We spent the entire day at the park.  No one wanted to leave, but we had eaten through all the food we packed and the sunshine and outdoor activity had reduced the kids to "near starvation."  A little fried chicken from Popeyes on the way home finished off a really, really fun day.
everything is better with a friend
If you live locally and need a fun place to spend the day, I highly recommend taking your family to Silver Falls State Park.  It's beyond crowded on the weekend so go on a week day if you can swing it. There is a $5 per vehicle entry fee that you can purchase in the park.  If you have a state park pass, you can get in for free.

Tuesday, July 2, 2013

Oneonta Gorge and Sabbath Rest

family photo at the falls
The summer before fifth grade my childhood family moved from the cornfields of Iowa to Gresham, Oregon.  The Pacific Northwest romanced us.  We drank deep of its beauty and majesty.  Each weekend was a new outdoor adventure filled with wonder that such untamed power and awe-inspiring beauty could exist in one place.

Years later MY family is doing the same thing.  We're five years into our Pacific Northwest adventure and still discovering new places to play and rest.  This weekend I guided my family to Oneonta Gorge, one of my childhood favorites.  They loved it as much as I did and we spent a very hot summer day playing in the ice-cold water.
kids playing in the gorge
It's hard to call Oneonta Gorge a "hike" since the total distance is one mile but it is definitely an adventure.  Not for the faint-hearted, there are some perilous sections of this hike which is why we waited until our kids were old enough to handle it.  Paige - at seven years old - was borderline in her physical and mental ability to handle the challenges.  Curt told her he needed her to be tough.  In the parts she was scared she said out-loud, "I'm tough and my name is Paige.  I'm Tough Paige and I can do it."
after Curt's "let's be kind, loving and safe" pep talk, he told us to line up shortest to tallest.  I wonder how long it will be before Grant is on the other side of me?
We parked on the shoulder of the Columbia River Historic Highway and walked to a steep, winding staircase flanking the bridge crossing the Oneonta Creek. We picked our way down the stairs to a narrow trail alongside the creek's edge.  It led us through the brush for about 100 yards before it bled into the creek.

From that point, the trail was the creek.  It feeds into a very narrow and tall canyon with cliff walls rising on either side.  The water is cold and the creek bottom rocky and unstable.  A hot summer day and tennis shoes or water sandals with sturdy bottoms are a must-have to complete this hike.

The first peril is a huge log jam that blocks up the entire gorge.  Hikers must climb up and over the slippery rocks and logs to follow the creek through the gorge.  There is no margin for error and a fall would result in broken bones.  We were there on the weekend and the backlog of people (and dogs) trying to cross the log jam was long and intimidating.  Many well-intentioned hikers turned around at this point.
log jam.  Our oldest three kids are on the bottom right - playing on the low log and swimming in the swimming hole behind it.
Paige was scared and Curt was uncomfortable with the risk factor of slippery surfaces and lots of people.  I convinced them that the hidden waterfall with a swimming hole at the end of the gorge was a reward worth working for.  We chose to wait in line and finally made it safely to the other side.

Once we were over the log jam we took a collective deep breath and followed the creek into the depths of the gorge.  Blue skies and bright sunlight danced with shadows from the cliffs.  The water numbed our toes and kept our bodies cool.  Curt and I hung back and watched our kids explore, laugh, splash and shriek in the water.  It was a glimpse of heaven.
sometimes I wish they would be a little less boring...  
The majority of the time the water in the creek ranged from ankle to knee-deep, with the exception of one section toward the end where the creek bottom drops down and the water gets deep.  I'm 5' 7" and the water came up past my chest.  There is no shoreline so hikers get WET!  Paige hitched a ride on Curt's shoulders, I carried our day pack on top of my head so our phones didn't get wet, and the big kids swam.  The water was take-your-breath-away cold but so refreshing.  A water-proof bag would be essential if I would have wanted to take my fancy camera on this hike.

Half a mile into the gorge, the creek dead ends into a stunning waterfall with an inviting swimming hole.  Grant dove right in, swam to a rock outcropping and jumped back into the water.  Normally I'm a Freeze Baby and avoid cold water like a plague, but it was just hot enough outside to be inviting.  The water beckoned and I kept thinking, "How often in life do I have the opportunity to swim with my boy in the pool of a waterfall?"  It took me a good hour to warm up after our swim but it was the highlight of the day for me and a memory I will take with me for the rest of my life.
the entire waterfall

Grant and I post-swim
When we got back to the bridge, no one wanted to leave.  Our family is learning to practice the art of Sabbath Rest.  It's a teaching we're both learning and embracing.  Woven into the rhythm of creation, Sabbath rest was created by God and he called it holy.  It's the antidote to all the hard work we do the other six days of the week.  Regular rest is restorative and takes planning and practice to learn to do it well.

We chose to spend the remainder of our Sabbath at Oneonta Creek, splashing in the shallow spots and dipping into the deeper holes when we needed to cool off.
doing nothing, something I don't naturally do well.
Grant sat with Alli and taught her how to do the "eggbeater kick," a skill she'll need when she starts water polo next spring.
teaching Alli how to "egg beater"
Katie and Paige threw rocks, chatted, and sat in the sun.
Katie and Paige
We explored the cool tunnel through the mountainside.
Grant and I climbed to the top

Curt and the girls stayed put on solid ground
Beauty was all around us:  blue skies, bright sunshine, babbling creeks, crashing waterfalls, intimidating cliff faces, and people of every shape and size.  We watched our children - healthy and thriving - soaking up the sun and simply playing.  It truly was restorative rest.



As the afternoon lapsed into early evening, we reluctantly left the gorge and headed to church via Target to buy all the things we should have packed to get ready for church (like underwear and deodorant) but forgot.  We converted from hikers to worshippers in the church bathroom and finished our day celebrating the new life we have through Jesus.

The kids fell straight into bed and Curt and I sat at the kitchen counter scheming up what to do next week on our Sabbath.

Thank you Jesus for the gift of rest...
rest

Of family...
family (I forgot I tied my shirt around my head so it wouldn't get wet)

Of beauty...
beauty

Of life that is truly life.

Sunday, June 16, 2013

A Sampling of Sixth Grade Writing - Guest Post by Grant Stilp

this is where Grant spent his spring - in the pool playing water polo
scoring his first goal of the season and I just happened to get it on film
Grant, our oldest, just finished sixth grade.  He loved his first year in middle school!  Now that is a huge answer to prayer.  Today we went through a GIANT stack of papers in his backpack and binder, a wadded up sampling of some of his work this year.  I was struck by how much his cursive improved from the beginning of the year to the end of the year.
he was REALLY excited about his new water polo sweatshirt
As always, I was moved by his writing.  He writes poetry effortlessly - a talent I do not possess.  His dreams are huge (work for NASA?) but it would never cross his mind to do anything except chase after them.  This kind of enthusiasm for living abundant life is infectious.

As Grant's life unfolds it will be interesting to see how much of his current passions will grow with him into adulthood.  We'll definitely be looking back at this post in ten years and comparing real life to his sixth grade dreams.  I sure do love my boy!



Blue
by Grant Stilp

this was the middle of the year cursive

Blue looks like a beautiful river flowing down the mountain.
Blue sounds like the noisy waterfall pouring off the cliff.
Blue tastes like a crisp, fresh glass of water on a hot summer day.
Blue feels like a smooth feather of a blue jay.


My Dream House - Writing Assessment Final
by Grant Stilp

end of the year cursive
Oh man, what would it be like to live in your dream house?  I think it would be amazing.  Living in your dream house would be like living in your own paradise, because YOU designed it!

My dream house would have a very modern looking design.  Also, I would like to create an open floor plan so you can see most of the house from the front door.  I don't like houses with long winding hallways.  It just bugs me that you can't see around the next corner.  So an open floor plan would be perfect for me.  Now that I have a theme for my house, what will I put in my house to fill up the space?

The first thing I would need in my house is furniture.  I would probably do all my shopping at Ikea because most of their furniture matches my theme.  In my house I would have a spot for all my hobbies.  The first think I would have is a giant recording studio with lots of percussion stuff in it.  Above my recording studio I would have a whole room just for playing video games.  Lastly, I would have a whole closet full of skateboards.  I would also have a long, steep driveway for skating down.  Now that I have a my dream house, where in the world will I enjoy my dream house?

My dream house would be located in Denver, Colorado, right in the heart of the Rockies.  The house would be located on one of the foothills surrounding Denver that way I could be in Denver and meet the need for a long, steep driveway.  I love the snow (because I'm from Chicago) so Denver would be perfect for me.

Now you have heard about my dream house.  An open floor plan with places for all my hobbies, right in the heart of the Rockies.  Ah...paradise.

The next sample was my Mother's Day gift this year.  Grant explained that if you take the words "the eyes" and rearrange the letters, it says "They see."  This was the basis of a poem he wrote and then read out-loud to me.  I cried.
The Eyes
by Grant Stilp for Mom on Mother's Day
June 2013

The eyes
They see
her eyes
They understand
They search
Your heart
They love
And Care
Because
They are
Her eyes
They see



Grant Stilp Value Frame
by Grant Stilp

In my life I value...

  • Family
  • Sports
  • Fitness
  • Science
  • Air
  • A home
  • My brain
  • Respect
  • Music
  • God
In my life I will...

Use the powerful brain I was given to reach my ambitions, big or small, and to accomplish great goals.  I plan to make discoveries in physics and aerospace engineering, and to work for NASA or Lockheed Martin.

What about you?  What would your value frame look like?  What kind of dreams do you have for your life?  Why not chase them down? 

Tuesday, June 11, 2013

I Am - guest post by Paige Stilp

Paige on a recent field trip to the zoo
The girls have been bringing home piles of school papers, half filled notebooks, and mostly used school supplies.  They do this in stages to prepare for the last day of school.  Paige (7 years old and our baby) is finishing up first grade.  I seriously can't believe it.  There's something about her that seems time warped at age two.  I wonder if we'll always view her as our baby?

showing off her new glasses and how tired we were after a day at the zoo
As Paige pulled papers out of her backpack this afternoon, she unpacked a treasure trove of "Must Keep For the Rest of My Life" documents.  I'm such a pushover for anything creative, especially stuff the kids write or draw.

I found this imaginative piece.  The assignment was to create a Dr. Seuss-like animal. Paige's creation was a "camorseat."  Per Paige's description, "It's a combination of a camel, horse and cat.  It has four eyes, a camel head, a horse body, and a cat tail.  It has rainbow colors and it's habitat is mixture of desert and forest."  I would love to meet one of these in person.
Paige's Camorseat
Paige has always been a little Rule Follower.  When I found this enlightening piece on the dangers of bark chips it was all I could do to not burst out laughing.  The captions on the illustrations are so funny.  "Good.  No.  Okay. Stop."  So precious!

"You shouldn't throw bark chips.  Because it is not safe.  Because it could knock your eye out.  Because people don't like it.  One time I saw a person doing...

..it.  Bark chips are very sharp. Bark chips are always very wet.  Don't throw bark chips."  

The final gem in her pile of papers was a book she wrote.  Simplistically beautiful, it almost made me cry to see on paper the confidence she has in this world, in herself, and in those around her.  It came through in her words and her brightly drawn illustrations.  At the tender age of seven she understands her value and worth as a Daughter of the King.  That security and confidence is shaping her view of the world.  I hope she never loses this bright outlook on life.

Here's her book, exactly as she wrote it.


"I AM (in hand-drawn bubble letters)
by Paige Stilp 

I am Paige Stilp.  A sister, a student and a helper.

I feel happy when Sophia Wong comes to softball games.  And when I get to be with Mrs. Young.  I see people all arond me who want to love me.  I see anamals all arond.


(Mrs. Young is her first grade teacher.  Thank you Mrs. Young for such an incredible First Grade experience for Paige.  She learned and grew so much under your leadership.)  

I hear voices off.  And pencils moveing on paper.  I know that I have friends and that I'm loved.


I am a anamal fan.  A friend.  A sister.  And a student."

What about you?  If you had to write a book called I AM, what would you write?  Would you focus on the things that you are not? The things you aspire to be?  Or who you really are.  A daughter.  A son.  A sister.  A brother.  A friend.  A student.  Lover of Jesus?

Do you know that you are loved?

Thank you Paigey for bringing us all back to what really matters.  I'm so proud of you.